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Maybe he was shy or didn’t find it that easy to get a girlfriend until much later than everyone else.Terrified he’ll embarrass himself, he avoids making any sexual advances at all.It was some sort of an “accomplishment” to say you “popped a girl’s cherry.” Now, in my adult years, men talk about dealing with virgins with an air of dismay.They want someone who is experienced, knows what they like and knows how to receive pleasure as well as give it.And given the choice between having just one boy with whom to spend all my time or a group of boys, friends trumped boyfriend.In college there were a handful of guys who probably could have been my first, but things never quite worked out.
For most of my junior high and high school years, I played the role of the friend — the token girl in a group of boys who were more interested in taking my advice for how to ask a girl to prom than taking me to prom.
I've dished a lot about my sex life here on Smitten.
And yes, my family reads every single one of my posts.
But there are a few things I have yet to share with you.
Let's start a guy I was involved with a long time ago.