Femme lesbian dating
This was in part due to the media that focussed on stereotypical representations of lesbians.
This has somewhat developed in the last decade or so.
Whether you're looking for friendship or love; whether you’re a femme into femmes, or simply just a woman into femmes- this is a place where you can finally meet, seek and be found.
It can be hard to find love, and a community, when you’re a femme, and we’re here to help!
Of course there are nonlesbians who do lesbian porn, but you can't throw a blanket on all lesbian porn actresses and say tey're all bi and only after men. I'm kind of a mix between a Chapstick Lesbian, Soft Butch, Blue Jeans Femme, Futch, and a Pillow Queen (that one is only slight, I'm really submissive in bed, and it's not that I don't like to pleasure my partner, I just kinda suck at it and I just can't be dominate no matter how hard I try, I get too shy and nervous). I was with my friend at a lesbian bar in New York ("The Cubby Hole") and this girl was hitting on me. They wouldn't even theoretically be interested in sleeping with one another were they not being paid. Worse yet, most lesbians can't stand this kind of porn. Just as we use different terms to define certain characteristics.
I told her I was straight and she was pretty disappointed. When KD Lang had her stunning face on the cover of New York Magazine in the 90s, I was entranced. Never knew it had a name, and I was hoping I could feel these feelings without having to change orientation. It's a sort of "Urban" dictionary for those who are new/are looking for information on the different terms used in the LGBT community.
We put our lives out there as a couple to fill the gap of lesbian role models and to show that you can be feminine and a lesbian.
We get a lot of questions from our followers asking how can they meet a femme?
I’ve gotten a few emails lately from femmes that are only attracted to other femmes. For the first several years of me figuring out how I fit into the lesbian community, I was only attracted to femmes.